Cure the Cured

curing those in need.

  • 16th September
    2011
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  • 16th September
    2011
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  • 7th September
    2011
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me and this boy have liked each other on and off for a year.. we've said "i love you" a few times, he said it first. we decided being friends with benefits would be a lot easier than being bf and gf.. but everytime we've actually had sex, he's all of a suddent started being really mean and distant after. then like 3 weeks later he'll come back and flirt and love me til the next time we have sex. ive tried getting over him like 5 times and i cant :( my heart keeps breaking but i cant let him go.

Asked by: Anonymous

Dear Anon, 

It sounds like he’s just using you for sex. ): I’m sorry, sweetie. Boys can be evil.

You need to start saying no and refusing him. If you don’t talk to him, you’ll eventually start to forget him. He’s not worth it. This relationship can be very dangerous. Sex ties a person emotionally to another person. It hurts a lot more to let go once you’ve had sex. 

  • 7th September
    2011
  • 07
I wanted to go back to school with clear skin and stuff, and I've been on medicine for acne for about two months. It had cleared up really, really well so it was barely visible but for a few scars. But now loads of spots have come up on my face just in time for school tomorrow. Is there anything I can do? I don't know if it's because I'm stressed about going back to school or something. Should I just try to drink loads of water and keep washing them? I know they won't go completely tonight...

Asked by: Anonymous

Hi doll-face.

I’m not sure if this is the medicine you have, but a lot of girls that I know are taking these “acne pills”. They cause serious side-effects and can be dangerous. Clear skin is not worth the risk!

But if you’re taking another kind of medicine, then here’s your answer. ^^ Most likely, you’re so nervous, you’re breaking out. It happens to me ALL THE TIME. Acne break-outs can come from stress, sickness, eating bad foods, lack of water, soda, dirty hair, oils, your hands, candy, chocolate (that one always gets me!), and just about everything you touch. Try to watch what you touch and clean your sheets and pillow cases weekly. Drink WATER. Everyday, all day. It’s the true antidote for break outs. Get a bit of concealer and patience and it should clear out in a few days. Do not poke or squeeze them! It just leaves scars and irritates them. Good luck, hon! <3

  • 7th September
    2011
  • 07
it all started as a dare, me to kiss my boyfriend.we ended up behind a bush and kidna just sat there, and hes like now is where we kiss and i turned away.. it wasn't right. everyone was pressuring us into it, it shouldnt be planned right? i said come on let's go back. i really wasn't comfortable.. and he kept saying stuff like, don't you trust me. it was so awkward, he kept kinda saying we should kiss but not making a move, and then im like, look lets just go back, his like no theyll call me gay

Asked by: Anonymous

Dear Anon,

I’ve been in your exact position! My friends pushed me into kissing this boy and I wasn’t ready. We ended up not doing it and I was relieved. 

It’s nothing to fret over. If he was a good boyfriend, he wouldn’t pressure you like that. You’re ready when you’re ready. If he’s only worried about what others think, that’s not a good sign. You are you and you’re not going to be pushed around by him and those kids. I know social image is important, but you don’t want to give into pressure. Alright, sweetie? <3

  • 7th September
    2011
  • 07
hey its me again grace, about the ex Luke, so this party i was saying about is tomorrow&im really nervous, i just want him too see me&think why did i let her go, but im scared he wont, im scared he will look at me&think 'im glad she nothing to do with me anymore' i just want to make him jealous&make him want me back, is that bad? should i be trying too do that? any advice on what to do? i might no go actually... arghh i dont know what too do, help please? x x x

Asked by: Anonymous

Dear Grace,

I think you should go. You don’t want to show that you were so hurt by him, even if you were. It’s time to gloss those lips and show him who’s boss. You’re beautiful and he was a fool to let you go. And if you doesn’t take you back, his loss! You can definitely catch another guy, Grace. I have faith in you! <3

  • 1st September
    2011
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  • 31st August
    2011
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  • 31st August
    2011
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Thank you for the last post that you reblogged. It helped me think a lot more about those who would care, so thank you again.

Asked by: Anonymous

Anytime. I knew that would reach out to some. It’s important to think before you act, y’know? (: You’re a beautiful, loved person who needs to do a double take on what they are missing. 

Much love. <3 If you need anything, you know where to find me.

  • 31st August
    2011
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So you want to kill yourself? Because no one cares about you. Your family hates you. Right? No. Your parents walking in your room in the morning to only find a dead body. They’ll try their hardest to not think negative, and to just think that you’re fooling around. Then they’ll start shaking you. Why aren’t you breathing? They’ll be broken. Tears. Many tears. More tears than you ever shed. Was it them? Were they the reason you did this? More tears. Pain. Every day. Every night. Every single second of every day. Guilt. More guilt. What about your bestfriends? They’re not going to care. Right? No. What’s the first thing that will go through their mind when your principal comes in and tells the class that you’re not alive. While your bestfriend sits there in tears. That girl that you’d smile at but never talk to? She’s now crying. The boy who used to kick you under the table just to annoy you? He’ll be shocked. He’ll be devastated. He’ll blame himself. What about your teacher? Thoughts crossing her mind. She’ll question if you did it because she didn’t make school comfortable enough for you. Pain. Devastation. All in one. Who organises your funeral? Who has to go through your stuff? Clothes? Notes? Those few older girls who used to give you daggers at school? They’ll feel regret. They’ll blame themselves. See, if you killed yourself today, you’ll never know what might of happened tomorrow. You’ll never know because you’re dead. Plain dead. Not breathing. Not alive. Just dead. Your family hates themselves for it. Your bestfriend then falls into depression. Tears. Tears. More tears than a river. All because you killed yourself because you thought noone would care. Right? You are loved. By many. Someone right now is thinking of you. And right now, I’m thinking about anyone who has thought or is considering suicide. You are beautiful. No matter if you’re black, white, homo-sexual, tall, short, overweight or anorexic. You are beautiful. You want to kill yourself? Think about it first. There’s no coming back. And I promise, if you do it, you are not only hurting yourself, you are hurting many. You are creating more tears than you led yourself to. You are making everyone miserable and making them all feel guilt and pain. Never will they feel whole like they used to when they had you. You are beautiful. And you are never ever alone.

themadsquirrel09:

thecollisionof-yourkiss:

thehakawati:

fuckperfection:

this made me cry 

i def thought about suicide today, matter of fact i always do

Wellfuck.

…fuck ;-;

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