it all started as a dare, me to kiss my boyfriend.we ended up behind a bush and kidna just sat there, and hes like now is where we kiss and i turned away.. it wasn't right. everyone was pressuring us into it, it shouldnt be planned right? i said come on let's go back. i really wasn't comfortable.. and he kept saying stuff like, don't you trust me. it was so awkward, he kept kinda saying we should kiss but not making a move, and then im like, look lets just go back, his like no theyll call me gay
Asked by: Anonymous
Dear Anon,
I’ve been in your exact position! My friends pushed me into kissing this boy and I wasn’t ready. We ended up not doing it and I was relieved.
It’s nothing to fret over. If he was a good boyfriend, he wouldn’t pressure you like that. You’re ready when you’re ready. If he’s only worried about what others think, that’s not a good sign. You are you and you’re not going to be pushed around by him and those kids. I know social image is important, but you don’t want to give into pressure. Alright, sweetie? <3
